What career goals have you set for 2014? It's important to take stock of what went well, what didn't, and what you'd like to see different in your career this upcoming year. Some questions to consider:
1) What do you want to do more of, less of, or differently in your career this coming new year?
2) How robust is your network? Who would you like to add to your network? How can you stay in better contact with your network?
3) Are you seeking a promotion or a raise? It's important to know your market value so you have a basis for discussion if you find that you're being underpaid.
4) If you rated your satisfaction level in your current job from 1 to 10 with 10 being high, where would you fall? If you're not as satisfied as you'd like, what steps can you take to improve that number? Do you need to learn some new skills? Can you find a better fit within your current company? Do you need to look for work elsewhere?
Invest some time to take a career inventory for this year and set goals for next year. Just the simple act of writing down your goals increases your chances of achieving them.
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Saturday, December 28, 2013
Sunday, December 22, 2013
Increase Job Satisfaction through Seven Stories Exercise
Here's a great exercise to help examine the most satisfying activities over your life and discover those you will want to use as you grow older. The key in using this exercise is to identify things you did well and also enjoyed doing. You can include activities when you were younger and throughout your life. For example, perhaps you earned a merit badge in Girl Scouts.
Here are some additional examples:
Next, you will want to analyze your Seven Stories. Answer the following questions for each of your Seven Stories:
Story #1: __________________________________________________________
1) What was your main accomplishment?
2) What about it did you enjoy the most?
3) What did you do best?
4) What was your key motivator?
5) What led up to it?
6) What role did you play?
7) What was the environment like?
8) What was the subject matter?
Next, identify the skills you used in each of your Seven Stories. Here are a few examples to get the juices flowing: administration, analyzing, client relations, coordinating, fundraising, leadership, organization, research, teamwork, training, troubleshooting. Tally up how many times you selected each skill that you identified in your Seven Stories. Do some skills show up in many of your Seven Stories? That will be key in determining which activities you would find the most satisfying going forward.
Source: Navigating Your Career: Develop Your Plan, Manage Your Boss, Get Another Job Inside by Kate Wendleton.
Here are some additional examples:
- Got media coverage for a new product launch.
- Coordinated blood drive for company's division.
- Came in third place in tennis tournament.
Next, you will want to analyze your Seven Stories. Answer the following questions for each of your Seven Stories:
Story #1: __________________________________________________________
1) What was your main accomplishment?
2) What about it did you enjoy the most?
3) What did you do best?
4) What was your key motivator?
5) What led up to it?
6) What role did you play?
7) What was the environment like?
8) What was the subject matter?
Next, identify the skills you used in each of your Seven Stories. Here are a few examples to get the juices flowing: administration, analyzing, client relations, coordinating, fundraising, leadership, organization, research, teamwork, training, troubleshooting. Tally up how many times you selected each skill that you identified in your Seven Stories. Do some skills show up in many of your Seven Stories? That will be key in determining which activities you would find the most satisfying going forward.
Source: Navigating Your Career: Develop Your Plan, Manage Your Boss, Get Another Job Inside by Kate Wendleton.
Saturday, December 14, 2013
Staying marketable through networking
Being and staying marketable is important for every careerist today. What are your career goals and what steps can you take to get a job, keep a job, or move up?
One of the most important keys to success for careerists today is to build and maintain your network. It's vital for job seekers, folks that want to advance, and even those who want to keep your job.
It's easy for job seekers to sit behind your computer all day responding to job postings. While that should be one your job search strategies, networking should be a bigger piece. And when you do find a job online, always take it a step further and see if there's someone in your network that either works at that company or knows someone that does. Remember, employers like to hire people they know and people that come referred to them. Job postings can provide some valuable insight into what companies and industries are hiring.
If you're looking to advance in your career, be sure to develop and nurture your internal network. Keep your boss and your boss's boss apprised of your accomplishments. Once a week go out to lunch or coffee with a colleague. Volunteer to work on special projects. Don't gossip about your co-workers.
Let's say you're working for a company and you want to make sure you're doing everything you can to keep your job. Be sure to network with folks in your department and also from other departments. At some point, there may be an opening you want to go after in another department.
One of the most important keys to success for careerists today is to build and maintain your network. It's vital for job seekers, folks that want to advance, and even those who want to keep your job.
It's easy for job seekers to sit behind your computer all day responding to job postings. While that should be one your job search strategies, networking should be a bigger piece. And when you do find a job online, always take it a step further and see if there's someone in your network that either works at that company or knows someone that does. Remember, employers like to hire people they know and people that come referred to them. Job postings can provide some valuable insight into what companies and industries are hiring.
If you're looking to advance in your career, be sure to develop and nurture your internal network. Keep your boss and your boss's boss apprised of your accomplishments. Once a week go out to lunch or coffee with a colleague. Volunteer to work on special projects. Don't gossip about your co-workers.
Let's say you're working for a company and you want to make sure you're doing everything you can to keep your job. Be sure to network with folks in your department and also from other departments. At some point, there may be an opening you want to go after in another department.
Sunday, December 8, 2013
Determining Your Ideal Work Environment
How satisfied are in your current job? If you were to rate your satisfaction level on a scale from 1 to 10 with 10 being high, where do you see yourself? Get clear on where there may be some gaps in your current job. Take a look at the following list of questions in different categories and jot down your thoughts:
Physical surroundings/location:
Recognition/rewards:
The above questions will help you determine what area or areas might be causing you to feel less than satisfied in your current job. Having this clarity can help you determine what steps you can take to improve those areas in your current job or move on to another job.
Source: Navigating Your Career: Develop Your Plan, Manage Your boss, Get Another Job Inside by Kate Wendleton.
Physical surroundings/location:
- Are you in an office or are you moving from one place to another?
- If you are in an office, describe its appearance.
- Is it a formal or informal environment:
- Are there distractions or is it quiet?
- Are you is isolated or surrounded by people?
- How do you get to work?
- What kind of people do you work with, e.g., creative, energetic, technical, or mechanical:
- Do you prefer to work with many people or a few?
- Do you socialize with your colleagues outside of work?
- Are are you working with other people, equipment, or information?
- Are you managing or directing people?
- Are you reading reports?
- Do you attend meetings regularly?
- Are you responsible for complete tasks or are you responsible for a piece of a task?
- Do you attend meetings of external professional associations?
- How much do you travel?
- Are you a decision maker?
- How much freedom do you have to carry out your responsibilities?
- Are people formal or informal in how they relate to each other?
- What type of management style is typical?
- Do people prefer to communicate mainly through talking or in writing?
- What are people wearing?
Recognition/rewards:
- What types of recognition do you receive?
- How are you rewarded?
- Are monetary rewards based on individual or team performance?
- What are your work hours?
- Do you have flexible work hours?
The above questions will help you determine what area or areas might be causing you to feel less than satisfied in your current job. Having this clarity can help you determine what steps you can take to improve those areas in your current job or move on to another job.
Source: Navigating Your Career: Develop Your Plan, Manage Your boss, Get Another Job Inside by Kate Wendleton.
Sunday, December 1, 2013
Are you promotable?
Are you looking for a promotion? If so, what steps are you taking to climb the proverbial career ladder?
The first thing you'll want to do is develop a career development plan. If you don't know where you're going, how are you going to get there? Take time to take stock of your strengths and where you would like your career to take you. Knowing your long-range career goals can help you stay on track and position yourself for each next rung on the ladder. Do you need to acquire some new skills? Do you need additional training or certifications?
Be visible at work. Be sure to keep your boss and your boss's boss apprised of your accomplishments. Throughout the year, keep track of you "career kudos." This will make it much easier for you to "sell" your idea of a promotion when you have a discussion with your manager.
You also may want to consider receiving feedback on your personal brand. The 360Reach personal branding survey is an excellent tool that allows you to receive feedback from friends, family, colleagues, and others that know you well. The beauty of this type of 360 tool is that it is a true 360 because you receive feedback from more than just your work colleagues. Having this external feedback will allow you to see how you are being perceived by others and take steps to expand those areas you want to be seen as and work on diminishing those areas that may get in the way of your career success.
Sunday, November 24, 2013
Media Impacts Career Choice for Females
I am very excited to have been invited and accepted into a train-the-trainer program designed to teach administrators, teachers, and counselors strategies to increase the number of females in science, technology, engineering, and math (STEM) fields. If you haven't heard this acronym yet, you surely will soon. Many initiatives have been developed over the last few years to increase the number of females (and males) in STEM. Why? These fields are expected to grow at a very fast rate over the next several years, and in order for the U.S. to remain competitive in the global marketplace, we need more people entering STEM.
When considering career options for yourself, your child, or exploring with your client, don't forget about STEM. Not all STEM jobs require sitting behind a desk or being locked in a laboratory all day. Many offer opportunities to make a difference and help others.
Many reasons contribute to why females often don't consider STEM fields- from socialization to gender stereotypes. Gender stereotypes are portrayed rampantly in the media. Just turn on the TV or open a magazine and you will see females depicted in traditional gender roles, e.g., the ones who most often cook the meals and clean the house. Toys advertised to girls include dolls while toys promoted to boys include building blocks and tools. This week a video has been popping up all over the place that that depicts three bored young girls watching a TV commercial. The commercial starts out promoting what advertisers "think" is most appealing to all females and then switches to what some young females would prefer. It's an eye-opener! Check it out here.
When considering career options for yourself, your child, or exploring with your client, don't forget about STEM. Not all STEM jobs require sitting behind a desk or being locked in a laboratory all day. Many offer opportunities to make a difference and help others.
Many reasons contribute to why females often don't consider STEM fields- from socialization to gender stereotypes. Gender stereotypes are portrayed rampantly in the media. Just turn on the TV or open a magazine and you will see females depicted in traditional gender roles, e.g., the ones who most often cook the meals and clean the house. Toys advertised to girls include dolls while toys promoted to boys include building blocks and tools. This week a video has been popping up all over the place that that depicts three bored young girls watching a TV commercial. The commercial starts out promoting what advertisers "think" is most appealing to all females and then switches to what some young females would prefer. It's an eye-opener! Check it out here.
Sunday, November 17, 2013
Step Up Your Networking during the Holidays
The holiday season is upon us. With holiday parties and family gatherings in abundance, you are provided with ample opportunities to network with family, friends, current or former colleagues, etc. Whether you're in a job search or not, building and maintaining your network is a critical career management tool.
Be prepared to network by carrying business cards with you. If you're in a job search, have business cards printed which include your name, email address, phone number, customized LinkedIn URL, and job target. As you make new connections, be sure to invite them to connect with you on LinkedIn.
Many job-seekers slow down their job search during the holidays. This is a actually a good time for you to step up your job search. Why? There's less competition.
Be prepared to network by carrying business cards with you. If you're in a job search, have business cards printed which include your name, email address, phone number, customized LinkedIn URL, and job target. As you make new connections, be sure to invite them to connect with you on LinkedIn.
Many job-seekers slow down their job search during the holidays. This is a actually a good time for you to step up your job search. Why? There's less competition.
Sunday, November 10, 2013
Hate to Network or Cold Call? Great Resource for Job Seekers!
I just read a fantastic book called, "100 Conversations for Career Success" by Laura M. Labovich and Miriam Salpeter. The authors share great tips to help you learn to network, cold call, and tweet your way to your dream job. Many of my clients cringe at the idea of networking and cold calling (can't blame them on the last one). This book takes all of the stress out of doing any of these activities.
This easy to read book includes scripts on how to handle a networking event and follow-up, how to handle a cold call with no lead or with a lead, how to communicate on LinkedIn and other social media, and so much more.
To give you a glimpse into the book, I'd like to share a tidbit that I found very valuable. If you're in a job search, personalize your outgoing message. The authors share this example:
"Hello. This is Sam Browning, human resources and training expert. I'm sorry I can't take your call now. Please leave your name and number, and I'll get back to you as soon as possible." Another example would be to also include your email address.
If you're in a job search, I highly recommend this book!
This easy to read book includes scripts on how to handle a networking event and follow-up, how to handle a cold call with no lead or with a lead, how to communicate on LinkedIn and other social media, and so much more.
To give you a glimpse into the book, I'd like to share a tidbit that I found very valuable. If you're in a job search, personalize your outgoing message. The authors share this example:
"Hello. This is Sam Browning, human resources and training expert. I'm sorry I can't take your call now. Please leave your name and number, and I'll get back to you as soon as possible." Another example would be to also include your email address.
If you're in a job search, I highly recommend this book!
Sunday, November 3, 2013
Brand YOU: How to Stand Out from Your Competition and Land Your Next Job
Last week I presented a workshop titled, "Brand YOU: How to Stand Out from Your Competition and Land Your Next Job" to about 100 job seekers. Identifying your brand is critical in a job search. If you and your competition have the same table stakes to get into the game, i.e., the same number of years of experience and education level, what is it about you that can tip the scales in your favor? Not sure? It's time to figure it out.
During a job interview, it's easy to list off a bunch of adjectives when asked, "Tell me about yourself." I encourage you to give examples that demonstrate you are a good problem-solver, possess good communication skills, etc. What's skills and attributes are important for the job you are targeting? What do you have that matches? That's what you want to highlight. And again, take it a step further and provide "proof."
One of my clients works in collections- and we KNOW what kind of reputation THEY have. Well, this client has actually received thank you letters from some of the folks she has called on. Why? Because of the way she handles people who are in dire straits. Her genuine concern and empathy shines through. This has become an important (and authentic) part of her personal brand.
Want to know more about personal branding? Check out this link for a video and access to a 'basic' version of the 360Reach personal branding survey.
During a job interview, it's easy to list off a bunch of adjectives when asked, "Tell me about yourself." I encourage you to give examples that demonstrate you are a good problem-solver, possess good communication skills, etc. What's skills and attributes are important for the job you are targeting? What do you have that matches? That's what you want to highlight. And again, take it a step further and provide "proof."
One of my clients works in collections- and we KNOW what kind of reputation THEY have. Well, this client has actually received thank you letters from some of the folks she has called on. Why? Because of the way she handles people who are in dire straits. Her genuine concern and empathy shines through. This has become an important (and authentic) part of her personal brand.
Want to know more about personal branding? Check out this link for a video and access to a 'basic' version of the 360Reach personal branding survey.
Sunday, October 27, 2013
Volunteering Can Help Open Doors
Whether you're looking for a new job, want to advance to the next level, give back, or simply add some spice to your life, volunteering can help! Volunteering allows you the opportunity to expand your network, learn valuable skills, and much more.
Several years ago I was in a job that wasn't satisfying any longer. As an outlet from my ho-hum job, I searched out volunteer opportunities and found a Twin Cities based non-profit that was seeking volunteer resume consultants. I was trained for the position and once a month I met with women who were in a job search, providing them constructive feedback on how to make themselves more marketable through their resume. I loved it! Six months later this non-profit had a job opening as an assessment/placement specialist working with women who were interested in the organization's six-week pre-apprenticeship program. I was hired! The volunteer experience allowed some of the staff to get to know me and "put in a good word" to the hiring manager. Don't underestimate the value of volunteering. It can help you gain visibility to leading influencers and develop new skills.
Several years ago I was in a job that wasn't satisfying any longer. As an outlet from my ho-hum job, I searched out volunteer opportunities and found a Twin Cities based non-profit that was seeking volunteer resume consultants. I was trained for the position and once a month I met with women who were in a job search, providing them constructive feedback on how to make themselves more marketable through their resume. I loved it! Six months later this non-profit had a job opening as an assessment/placement specialist working with women who were interested in the organization's six-week pre-apprenticeship program. I was hired! The volunteer experience allowed some of the staff to get to know me and "put in a good word" to the hiring manager. Don't underestimate the value of volunteering. It can help you gain visibility to leading influencers and develop new skills.
Thursday, October 17, 2013
Branding and your job search
A job search can be tough! If you and your competition have the same table stakes to get into the game, what can tip the scales in your favor? It's your personal brand. Let's say you've got an interview coming up. What do you think you might have in common with the other candidates? Is it the same number of years of experience? Could it be having experience in the same industry? What about your brand can help you be seen as the ideal candidate? Not sure, it's time to figure that out!
Review the job posting and compare the employer's requirements against your qualifications. Let's say they're looking for someone that is computer savvy. Perhaps one of the things you could capitalize on is the fact that you've developed several websites. If it's relevant to the job for which you are applying, you'll want to mention this in your cover letter and/or resume. What other skills or personal attributes can you leverage to position yourself as the ideal candidate?
Review the job posting and compare the employer's requirements against your qualifications. Let's say they're looking for someone that is computer savvy. Perhaps one of the things you could capitalize on is the fact that you've developed several websites. If it's relevant to the job for which you are applying, you'll want to mention this in your cover letter and/or resume. What other skills or personal attributes can you leverage to position yourself as the ideal candidate?
Thursday, October 10, 2013
Time for a Career Check-Up?
We're nearing the end of the year! What career goals did you set for yourself this year? Are you on track? It's important to take time at the beginning of each year to set some goals- and put them to paper! Just the act of writing down your goals increases your chance of achieving them. Then each month review your goals to see if you're on track and make any necessary adjustments.
One of my career goals for the year was to land a new contract with an outplacement agency, i.e., one that helps laid-off workers. And, I'm happy to report I achieved that goal just last month! How about you? What goals did you achieve? For the ones you didn't reach, what adjustments can you make to the goal or what action steps can you take to achieve those goals?
To help assess where you're at in your career, take this career check-up. This exercise can help identify any gaps that may get in the way of your career success. You can then determine what action steps you can take to close those gaps.
One of my career goals for the year was to land a new contract with an outplacement agency, i.e., one that helps laid-off workers. And, I'm happy to report I achieved that goal just last month! How about you? What goals did you achieve? For the ones you didn't reach, what adjustments can you make to the goal or what action steps can you take to achieve those goals?
To help assess where you're at in your career, take this career check-up. This exercise can help identify any gaps that may get in the way of your career success. You can then determine what action steps you can take to close those gaps.
Wednesday, October 2, 2013
What I learned about myself in Tahiti

Many of the people that live and work on the islands are either native Tahitians or natives of France. Since Tahiti is French Polynesia, it's easy for the French to work on any of the islands of Tahiti. The manager of the hotel we stayed at in Bora Bora, a native of France, has lived on that island for 15 years. Since she was a child, she always dreamed of living there. I asked what she does when not working and she said she does what visitors do, kayaks and snorkels. There are no shopping malls. If she wants to purchase any clothing other than a swimsuit or pareo (sarong), she shops "back home" in France when she visits family there once a year. Although, she said, "I wear my uniform at work and on my off-time I'm usually in my swimsuit." What a nice lifestyle!
What did I learn about myself during this experience? It's good to totally unplug occasionally. I didn't check my email at all while in Tahiti. It felt so freeing- and I was able to be totally present! I usually go 100 miles an hour and I learned it's good to slow down once in awhile. While on the island of Moorea, at least twice a day. I just reclined on a patio chair and watched the birds.
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Time for a reality check?
Are your Sundays spent dreading Monday? Are you in a secure job, but one that doesn't fulfill you? Is fear holding you back from making a change? If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, you're not alone.
It's easy to become complacent when you're in a job that you could do in your sleep or that pays well. A part of us may want to make a change, but then that nagging voice tells us, "I've got it made; I earn a good income. I SHOULD be happy" OR "I'm not sure I want to invest in discovering new options because of the money or time involved." So, you spend months, even years, being less than happy in your job. Plus, you're probably not giving your full 100% or more to the company.
It starts with a first step. Start to discover or re-discover your interests, skills, work values, etc. to determine if a new career would be a good move or if you could find more success and satisfaction in your current job or even a different position within your current company.
Sign up for my free teleclass, "Top 3 Myths of Career Success & 10 Keys to Becoming a Career Conqueror."
It's easy to become complacent when you're in a job that you could do in your sleep or that pays well. A part of us may want to make a change, but then that nagging voice tells us, "I've got it made; I earn a good income. I SHOULD be happy" OR "I'm not sure I want to invest in discovering new options because of the money or time involved." So, you spend months, even years, being less than happy in your job. Plus, you're probably not giving your full 100% or more to the company.
It starts with a first step. Start to discover or re-discover your interests, skills, work values, etc. to determine if a new career would be a good move or if you could find more success and satisfaction in your current job or even a different position within your current company.
Sign up for my free teleclass, "Top 3 Myths of Career Success & 10 Keys to Becoming a Career Conqueror."
Saturday, September 7, 2013
Tips for Moving Up the Proverbial Career Ladder
Let's say you've been in the same position for a few years now and you're ready to move up. You've done a great job, but you no longer find it challenging. How can you position yourself for a promotion? Here are some tips that can help:
1) Increase your visibility. Be sure to network within your own department and with those from other departments and even other divisions.
2) Let your boss know you want to advance. Your boss isn't a mind-reader. And, your boss may be too busy to notice you're not being stretched anymore. Tell your boss of your desire to move up and why you're a good candidate.
3) Keep track of your accomplishments and keep your boss and your boss's boss apprised of your them. Many folks feel like they're bragging when they do this. I encourage you to reframe it as "just stating the facts."
4)Volunteer to work on a special project. This will demonstrate that you have initiative and want more out of your job than just a paycheck.
Moving up the proverbial career ladder requires action- your action! Incorporate the above tips and start climbing!
Grab a copy of "Get a Job, Keep a Job, or Move Up- faster!
1) Increase your visibility. Be sure to network within your own department and with those from other departments and even other divisions.
2) Let your boss know you want to advance. Your boss isn't a mind-reader. And, your boss may be too busy to notice you're not being stretched anymore. Tell your boss of your desire to move up and why you're a good candidate.
3) Keep track of your accomplishments and keep your boss and your boss's boss apprised of your them. Many folks feel like they're bragging when they do this. I encourage you to reframe it as "just stating the facts."
4)Volunteer to work on a special project. This will demonstrate that you have initiative and want more out of your job than just a paycheck.
Moving up the proverbial career ladder requires action- your action! Incorporate the above tips and start climbing!
Grab a copy of "Get a Job, Keep a Job, or Move Up- faster!
Thursday, September 5, 2013
Container Lessons: A Fable by Sydney A. Paredes
A fellow coach wrote and shared the following fable with me.
The story is a great analogy for how we put people into containers, i.e.,
traditional gender roles.
There were jars and bowls and pitchers and various
containers all around the land. Everyone knew that container know-how was the
most important competence anyone could have.
In early days of school, even in preschool, the teachers
began container lessons. For the littlest children, the most popular way to
teach was to help them choose just the right container for a caterpillar – or
later for a butterfly – and to help them pay attention to which food belonged
in exactly which shape and size of container. Everyone knew by age six that
jello always belonged in a 9-oz round or 32 oz round basic containers with
round lids in milky white color that still let you see a hint of red or green
or orange or yellow color based on what flavor of jello was in the container.
It was equally important to put olives and pickles in small square 3-oz
containers with clear lids that let you see inside but kept any errant liquid
from leaking out.
Leaking was a sure sign that one’s container acumen was
lacking or that their pride in their containership was low.
There was a specific container for socks in one’s dresser
drawer, too, to keep them neat and tidy and easily accessible. Even dinner
plates had containers built in so that each food would stay separated while you
ate.
There were specific containers for transportation depending
on how much money a family had to spend or where they chose to live. And
containers for living space, too. There were containers within containers so
that little Johnny and little Susie knew their place and space when it was time
to go to bed.
It could be tricky for container illiterates, especially
when people came together in large container spaces – sometimes called family
rooms or dining rooms. The most popular strategy to help people manage was to
have each person assigned a particular chair container in a particular space
around the table. If a family was consistent in their container practices, the
times when people came together stayed appropriately contained.
These are just a few examples. Be assured that in some way,
shape, or form, everyone and everything could be contained.
One bright spring day, upon her twelfth birthday, Susie
Smith had a dream that shook her to her very soul. In her dream, dinner plates had
NO containers, so the juice from the peas ran into the juice from the roast
beef. People stared in horror at their plates, forks and spoons suspended in
mid air. Some picked at areas where the food was still contained. Others just
stared at their food and looked around uncomfortably to see what they should
do.
Now Susie, in her own dream, was coaxing the peas into the
roast beef and purposely making sure some of each was in her spoon. Then to
everyone’s astonishment, she put her spoon in her mouth!
“Yum!” She exclaimed. “This tastes really good.”
Then Susie noticed everyone staring at her in disgust.
“How could you?” said her father. “Have you no sense of
shame? No sense of honor? No loyalty?”
“It would be better to not eat at all,” said Susie’s father,
“than to blatantly ignore rules of containment!”
“I’ll die if I don’t nourish myself”, replied Susie, her
momentary joy of the new taste replaced by fear and sadness.
“I know,” said her father. “At least you would die
honorably.”
Saturday, August 31, 2013
Labor Day has me thinking of my worst job
When I was seventeen years old, my sister and I both landed jobs working in a turkey factory. Yep, that's right, a turkey factory! We drove 60 miles one way for our less than glamorous jobs. Each morning we put on rubber boots, a hairnet, white apron, rubber gloves, and safety glasses and worked in frigid conditions. My job was at the end of line and required scooping out who knows what from turkey carcasses. My sister and I realized very quickly that this wasn't the career for us. Four days later we quit!
How about you? What was your worst job?
How about you? What was your worst job?
Tuesday, August 27, 2013
Is your mindset getting in the way of your success?
It's amazing how powerful your mindset can be and what impact it can have on whether you reach your goals or not. Have you taken time to uncover any limiting beliefs that may be getting in your way of true success? You may not even be aware of some of those beliefs, but you can be sure they are stopping you from achieving what you say you want in your career or life. Below are some questions to ask yourself and tips to move from limiting to limitless.
1. It starts with awareness. Identify your self-talk. What negative thoughts are you saying to yourself, about yourself? When considering going after a promotion, do you say to yourself, "I'll never be considered." or "I'm not smart enough."
2. Next, how do you act out those negative thoughts? Do they keep you from going after that promotion? Do they stop you from learning new skills to be marketable for that promotion?
3. What feelings come up when you think those thoughts and act (or don't act) on them? Do you tell yourself, "I'm not good enough?"
4. Next, write down your "bully" beliefs and then next to them, write down your "buoyant" beliefs [positive beliefs] about what you can do. Using the example in #1: Bully belief: "I'm not smart enough." Buoyant belief: "I am smart and I am continually gaining new skills to make me more marketable."
5. Finally, brainstorm options for action, then prioritize, and commit to the best options that align with your goal. For example, I will join Toastmasters to improve my speaking, listening, and leadership skills. I will take a self-assessment to uncover my preferred leadership style to learn more about myself.
It's important to manage your mindset whether you're in a job search, want to advance in your career, or simply be more satisfied and successful in your current job.
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1. It starts with awareness. Identify your self-talk. What negative thoughts are you saying to yourself, about yourself? When considering going after a promotion, do you say to yourself, "I'll never be considered." or "I'm not smart enough."
2. Next, how do you act out those negative thoughts? Do they keep you from going after that promotion? Do they stop you from learning new skills to be marketable for that promotion?
3. What feelings come up when you think those thoughts and act (or don't act) on them? Do you tell yourself, "I'm not good enough?"
4. Next, write down your "bully" beliefs and then next to them, write down your "buoyant" beliefs [positive beliefs] about what you can do. Using the example in #1: Bully belief: "I'm not smart enough." Buoyant belief: "I am smart and I am continually gaining new skills to make me more marketable."
5. Finally, brainstorm options for action, then prioritize, and commit to the best options that align with your goal. For example, I will join Toastmasters to improve my speaking, listening, and leadership skills. I will take a self-assessment to uncover my preferred leadership style to learn more about myself.
It's important to manage your mindset whether you're in a job search, want to advance in your career, or simply be more satisfied and successful in your current job.
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Sunday, August 25, 2013
Use professional associations to expand your career and network
I recently spoke at a conference for HR professionals who are relatively new to their career. I was so impressed by their desire to grow professionally. During the day, participants had the opportunity to listen to a panel of successful seasoned HR professionals share their career journey and provide words of wisdom. Three career coaches, of which I was one, delivered presentations designed to help participants effectively manage their career. My presentation "10 Keys to Becoming a Career Conqueror" included the importance of having a vision for your career, identifying and capitalizing on your personal brand, and expanding your network. After the conference, many of the participants reached out to connect with me on LinkedIn. It's vital to build and maintain your network now and throughout your career. It's also important to consider who you want in your network and seek ways to connect with them, both online and offline.
If you're just starting out in your career or want to make sure you stay on track, what professional associations do you need to join? It's important to stay current with your current field, and if you're just starting out or want to change careers or industries, it's important to learn more about that particular field or industry. Remember, you need to take charge of your own career!
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If you're just starting out in your career or want to make sure you stay on track, what professional associations do you need to join? It's important to stay current with your current field, and if you're just starting out or want to change careers or industries, it's important to learn more about that particular field or industry. Remember, you need to take charge of your own career!
Don't miss my upcoming teleclass, "Top 3 Myths of Career Success & 10 Keys to Becoming a Career Conqueror." Also, grab a copy of my free eBook, Get a Job, Keep a Job, or Move Up- faster!
Thursday, August 22, 2013
Tips to Keep Your Network Alive
Reach out to one contact per
day. Rather than thinking WIIFM (what’s in it for me), what can you do to help
your contacts? What value can you bring to your network contacts? Not sure?
Ask! And, what are some activities you can do to keep your network alive? Try out the following:
·
Schedule coffee or lunch
·
Find natural touch points, e.g.,
birthday or holiday
·
Email a link to an article or
website they find of interest
·
Create a status update on LinkedIn
·
“Like” or comment on a contact’s
status update
·
Endorse a contact on LinkedIn
·
Write a recommendation for a contact
on LinkedIn
·
Post or respond to a question for a
group on LinkedIn
·
Invite
a contact to join you at an upcoming conference
·
Connect someone to another person
Add value to you contacts.
When you meet someone new, find out what they could use help with. If you know
someone in your network that can help a new connection with a problem, go ahead
and provide an introduction.
Create a networking fund.
Automatically set aside a small amount of money that will pay for coffees,
lunches, etc.
Sunday, August 18, 2013
Set a Networking Goal
Whether you're in a job search, advance to the next level, or simply manage your career effectively, it's important to network!
When you attend a networking event, go with a goal in mind. Your goal could be to meet 3 new people and reconnect with 3 people you already know. Having a goal will help you feel like you accomplished something- and you did! When you make new contacts, be sure to send them an invitation to connect on LinkedIn.
When you attend a networking event, go with a goal in mind. Your goal could be to meet 3 new people and reconnect with 3 people you already know. Having a goal will help you feel like you accomplished something- and you did! When you make new contacts, be sure to send them an invitation to connect on LinkedIn.
Keep in mind that it takes
time to develop, nurture, and expand your relationships. According to Thom
Singer, author of “Some Assembly
Required: How to Make, Grow, and Keep Your Business Relationships,” it
takes 7-10 meaningful interactions to create an effective networking
relationship.” Many people don't like networking because they feel like they're doing all of the taking, especially if they're in a job search. One way to get around that is to think about how you can help the other person. Ask that person if there is someone you can introduce him or her to or what they may need help with.
Wednesday, August 14, 2013
Create a Networking Plan
To ensure you get the results
you want from networking, create a plan. Some things to consider:
1) What are your current career goals? Are you in job search mode or career management mode? Or perhaps you’re seeking to advance to the next level?
2) What information are you seeking at this time? Is it connections within your target field, industry, or company? Are you trying to make connections with industry or thought leaders? Are you gathering information about a specific company, industry, or field?
3) What venues can you tap into to gather this information? Is it a professional association, a job transition group, or maybe a Chamber of Commerce event?
4) What are your weekly, monthly, and quarterly networking goals? Spend some time figuring out how many networking events you want to attend each week and how many 1:1’s you want to do. The amount will depend on your current career goals.
Remember, it's important to network whether you're in a job search, want to advance to the next level, or simply manage your career effectively.
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1) What are your current career goals? Are you in job search mode or career management mode? Or perhaps you’re seeking to advance to the next level?
2) What information are you seeking at this time? Is it connections within your target field, industry, or company? Are you trying to make connections with industry or thought leaders? Are you gathering information about a specific company, industry, or field?
3) What venues can you tap into to gather this information? Is it a professional association, a job transition group, or maybe a Chamber of Commerce event?
4) What are your weekly, monthly, and quarterly networking goals? Spend some time figuring out how many networking events you want to attend each week and how many 1:1’s you want to do. The amount will depend on your current career goals.
Remember, it's important to network whether you're in a job search, want to advance to the next level, or simply manage your career effectively.
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Saturday, August 10, 2013
Creating a System for Networking Contacts
Having a drawer full of business cards can be overwhelming. Create a system that will help you maintain regular contact with your network.
Microsoft Outlook, Excel, or JibberJobber are just a few programs that you can
use. How do your contacts prefer to stay
in contact? If you’re not sure, ask. Some folks may prefer email, while others
may like a phone call or a thoughtful card. Add that information into your
contact management system. Be sure to add a reminder to follow-up with your
contacts on a specified date.
And
what ever system you use, make sure to “circle back” to the person who
introduced you. You will be amazed by the feedback you get when you call or
email someone saying something like “I really enjoyed meeting your friend Jane
Doe the other day. She was very helpful. Thanks again and let me know how I can
help you.”
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Monday, August 5, 2013
Prioritizing Your Networking Contacts
Managing
your contacts can be overwhelming. You may want to consider prioritizing your
contacts into “A’s”, “B’s”, or “C’s” according to the level of influence they
may have on your job search or your career. You’ll want key influencers on your
“A” list. This could include recruiters, hiring managers, industry leaders, and
well-connected former co-workers in your field. Keep in contact with your “A’s”
more frequently than those in the other categories.
Your
“B” list can include family and friends, and professionals such as your
hairstylist, doctor, and dentist, etc. The latter come in contact with a large
number of people on a regular basis. You will naturally be in somewhat regular
contact with your immediate family and close friends. Your contact with your
hairstylist will typically be every 4-8 weeks, and your doctor and dentist at
least annually, if not more often.
Your
“C” list may include those professionals and others that you meet through
networking events and other activities. They may not have much influence for
you in your career. You may not decide to keep in contact with these folks.
Which
phase of the job search or which phase of your career will determine the
frequency of contact with each group. And, you may find that some contacts may
shift from “A” to “B” etc., depending on your needs.
In my next blog post, I will share tips on creating a system to manage your contacts.
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Tuesday, July 30, 2013
Expand Your Network = Career Success
Besides who is currently in your network, it’s also
important to also consider who you want in your network. Here is a short list
of different groups of people you may want to add to your network.
• Industry
leaders
• Thought
leaders
• Community
leaders
• Individuals
from other industries
• People
who work at your targeted companies
Don’t stick with just people of your gender. Diversify!
Women tend to have a smaller network and one made up primarily of women. This
situation can limit their options, since more men occupy positions of higher
authority.
Here are some avenues to help you identify names of people
that you want in your network:
• Read
local newspapers
• Read
trade publications
• Company
websites
• Create
Google alerts based on keywords
• Check out
LinkedIn groups related to your field and industry
• Ask
people you know who they think you should know
• Create a
list of names at target companies
• Join job
transition groups
Whether you are in a job search or want to effectively
manage your career, it’s important to continue expanding your network.
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Thursday, July 25, 2013
How Big is Your Network?
Whether you're in a job search, advance to the next level, or just manage your career, it's important to network. The first step in networking is to determine who you already
have in your network. I have heard statistics that each of us knows at least
250 people. That sounds like an astounding large number; however all of those
people aren’t your best friends.
Your network can include people that you know really well and some
that you know more casually. Take a look at the list below to help you get
started creating a list of people in your network:
• Family
• Friends
• Co-workers
• Former
co-workers
• Vendors
& suppliers
• Customers
• Classmates
• Former
classmates
• Parents
of your children’s friends
• Church
members
• Health
club members
• Professionals
such as your doctor, dentist, hairstylist
In my next blog post, I'll explore who you may want in your network and tips on finding those people.
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Monday, July 22, 2013
Network to Climb the Proverbial Career Ladder
How networking can help you….
1. Be seen as an integral part
of the company.
2. Become well known within
your industry.
3. Be seen as a subject matter
expert.
4. Expand your network.
5. Keep your network alive.
If
you’re serious about your career and want to move up to the next level,
networking can help make that happen! Let’s say you’ve noticed someone who has
successfully advanced in their career. Ask that person if he or she will
brainstorm with you for 15 minutes over the phone about how you can move up
from your current position.
It’s
not always about who you know, it’s about who knows you. Who are the movers and
shakers in your industry? Career influencers are those people who can hire you
or introduce you to others who could potentially hire you. They are those
people who can champion you- past managers and past customers who know you are
great! A career influencer can also be a mentor; someone who has a career path
that you want and has the connections and experience needed to help you do the
same. Reach out to that person and say,
“I’ve admired how you have transitioned into various roles and I would love to
hear how you did it.”
How
can you get on the radar screen of someone who can influence your career? What
professional associations do they belong to? Join those associations and get
involved. Don’t just merely be a member. Step up to the plate and volunteer to
serve on a special committee. Volunteer to register members at the monthly
meeting. This will help you start to put names to faces. Consider serving on
the board. This will help you gain visibility and credibility within your
industry and demonstrate your leadership skills. Create a presentation that
would be beneficial to the members of this professional association and
volunteer to be a speaker at a monthly meeting or special interest group.
Social
media is a good strategy to position yourself as an expert in your field and
convey your personal brand. It can also help you get noticed by recruiters and
hiring managers. Join groups related to your field and industry. Post
questions, respond to questions, and get on the radar screen of career
influencers. But remember, social media today can be a source for companies to
view your activity as well. Keep it positive and informative. And certainly, no
fowl language. Later you will learn tips
on how to expand your network and keep your network alive.
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Friday, July 19, 2013
Networking to Keep Your Job
Networking
can help you increase your visibility up, down, and across your current organization. Networking can help you...
1. Be seen as an integral part
of the company.
2. Become known as a subject
matter expert.
3. Expand your network.
4. Keep
your network alive.
While some may reserve
networking for times when they’re in a job search, others are continually
working to build and maintain their network for career insurance- to keep their
current job. How about you?
Networking
can happen right at work! Network with those above you, below you, and those at
your same level and with individuals from other departments and other
divisions. Keep your network appraised of your accomplishments. Did you just
finish
a big project? Let your boss and your boss’s boss know about it. Let’s say
you
meet your boss’s boss in the elevator and she or he says, “Hi, how are you
doing?” Rather than simply saying “fine” say, “I’m doing great, now that I just
finished the Acme project two weeks ahead of schedule and under budget.” Toot
your own horn! If you don’t, who will? It’s important for others to see you as
an integral part of the company; someone who goes and above and beyond their
job duties. Remember, your co-workers may have a family member or friend that
is looking for a new job or a connection. Imagine there impression of you, when
you can demonstrate that you can help them, even if it’s only an introduction
or a tip.
Are
you particularly knowledgeable about a certain area of your field? If so, make
sure others at your company know that. If you’re not a subject matter expert,
what can you do to become one? Do you need an advanced degree or a
certification or maybe take a class? Once you’ve taken the steps to becoming a
subject matter expert, let others at work know what you’re working toward.
Set
up coffee or lunch dates with your peers and other colleagues. Later you will
learn more tips for expanding your network and keeping it alive.
If
you’re not already a member, join LinkedIn. Monitor activities of your network
and when you see they’ve posted an update, ping them or call them. It can be as
simple as “Congratulations on the new promotion or new LinkedIn
recommendation.”
If
you were to lose your job today, who are the ten people you would reach out to
for advice on your job search? Don’t wait until you are laid off to reach out
to them. Contact them today! Set up a coffee or lunch date.
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Thursday, July 18, 2013
Network: Jump Start Your Job Search & Get a Job You Love Faster
Networking can help you….
1. Get the word
out that you are in a job search.
2. Gain advice
about your job search techniques.
3. Uncover job
leads in the “hidden job market.”
4. Get referrals
to other individuals or organizations that you’re targeting.
5. Learn more
about specific positions, fields, or industries.
6. Gather
information about specific companies.
7. Expand your
network.
8. Keep your
current network alive while meeting new people.
9. Help others get
what they want, even if it’s a warm introduction from you.
It’s important to let your network know that you are in a
job search. They can’t help you if they don’t know! And without clearly defined
job targets, i.e., specific positions, industries, and companies you are
seeking, it can be even harder for your network to help. Job seekers often tell
me, “I’m open. I’ll work for any company or industry.” While that may be true,
the more focused you are, the better your job search; the easier you make it
for others to help you.
Your network can provide you feedback on your job search
techniques and refer you to other individuals or organizations. They can also
offer insight into a new position, field, or industry if you are contemplating
a job or career change. And, your network can share with you what it’s like to
work at a particular company.
Many job openings aren’t advertised. Considered the “hidden
job market,” it’s your job to uncover those leads. Employers oftentimes go to
their employees for referrals when trying to fill an open position. Imagine if
your name was recommended. It clearly puts you in front of other candidates. I
encourage my clients to create a list of target companies and then do an
advanced search on LinkedIn to identify contacts that work at those companies.
Oftentimes it’s your second or third level contacts that are going to be most
helpful in your search. Ask your first level contacts to introduce you to your
second level contacts that work at your target companies.
Harvey MacKay, business guru, and author of Use Your Head to
Get Your Foot in the Door and Dig Your Well Before You’re Thirsty, encourages
those just laid-off to immediately start volunteering. Consider volunteering on
a high-profile fundraising event for a local charity. Not only will it allow
you the opportunity to develop or fine-tune your leadership, fundraising,
and/or speaking skills, it will give you a chance to network with people in
high places. It will also give you a reason to get out of the house, make you
feel much better, PLUS, when you’re asked, and you will be asked “What have you
been doing since your last job?” Now you have an opening line………"I’ve been
volunteering………….."
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Wednesday, July 17, 2013
3 Big Reasons to Network
Networking is critical to your career success. There are many reasons to network throughout your career. Here are the 3 big reasons:
1. Jump start your job search. You will want to network to get a job you love faster and to strengthen your personal brand.
2. Keep your job. You want to ensure your employer that you are providing them a ROI and more! You also want to strengthen your relationship with co-workers.
3. Advance to the next level. You want to get on the radar screen of career influencers to set yourself up for a promotion. You also want to be seen as talent that is connected to the industry and a leader.
So, wherever you're at in your career, make networking an integral part of your career management.
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Monday, July 15, 2013
What Networking Is & Isn't
“You will get all you want in life, if you help enough other people get what they want.” - Zig Ziglar
Networking is not about collecting business cards, but rather building relationships over time. If you are uncomfortable with networking, it may help to change your perspective of networking. Take the focus off of you and think of networking as an opportunity to help someone else. And, by helping others, you will improve your personal brand and your networking skills.
Networking is not about collecting business cards, but rather building relationships over time. If you are uncomfortable with networking, it may help to change your perspective of networking. Take the focus off of you and think of networking as an opportunity to help someone else. And, by helping others, you will improve your personal brand and your networking skills.
Networking may mean many different things to each of us. A
friend of mine, Shane Smith, has helped to start networking groups in the
Minneapolis area, helping thousands of people. As he explains it, networking is
about giving, or paying it forward. He has put in countless hours helping
others since 1995 and I can only imagine how many people would be willing to
help him if he asked. “But it’s not about just getting LinkedIn with someone;
it’s “connecting” with them and finding ways to stay in touch,” says Shane.
Rule No. 1 when networking, according to Shane: “Understand what networking truly is. You
must give. Be a personal and professional resource for others and expect nothing
in return."
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Saturday, July 13, 2013
Work Relationships Extend Beyond Work
I met a friend for coffee this morning. Jill was telling me that she had a going away party to attend this coming week. I asked if it was a co-worker, and she replied, "No, one of my bus mates." Jill rides the bus to her job in the Twin Cities. She has created some strong friendships as a result of sitting beside and across from the same people on the bus for several years. In fact, I met Jill through a friend whose husband was a bus mate of hers. Jill commented that when someone was "missing" for a few days, they would ask each other if they knew what was up with the missing person. She said that she started to make sure she announced an upcoming vacation so her bus mates wouldn't worry about her.
Jill mentioned that more recently the bus mates were now riding on a different bus, with a different bus seat configuration. This new seat arrangement has impacted the friendships. No longer were they sitting across from each other, but in front of or back of each other.
I thought it is so interesting that our work relationships can extend to the people we sit next to on the bus. The commonality of proximity can create friendships which otherwise might be unlikely.
Jill mentioned that more recently the bus mates were now riding on a different bus, with a different bus seat configuration. This new seat arrangement has impacted the friendships. No longer were they sitting across from each other, but in front of or back of each other.
I thought it is so interesting that our work relationships can extend to the people we sit next to on the bus. The commonality of proximity can create friendships which otherwise might be unlikely.
Wednesday, July 10, 2013
Ditch. Dare. Do! Brand Calculator
How does your personal brand stand now? Are you a potential brand,
rising brand, super brand, or even a mega brand? Take this abbreviated quiz
and find out. Select Yes or No for each item below.
1. Can you state your top five brand attributes—the
most relevant and compelling adjectives that describe you? Yes No
2.
Have you identified and documented your short-
and long-term career goals? Yes No
3.
Do you know what those around you would identify
as your greatest strength? Yes No
4.
Do you have a “So what? Make me care!” brand
positioning statement that describes what you offer, and for whom, how you are
different, and what value/ROI (return on investment) your differentiation
creates? Yes No
5.
Can you clearly describe your target audience—those
people who need to know about you so that you can achieve your goals? Yes No
6.
Do you have a home on the web that showcases
your success, such as your own website, personal portal (i.e., about.me or
flavors.me), etc.? Yes No
7.
Do you infuse every project meeting, report,
etc. with your personal brand – with what you want to be known for? Yes No
8.
Have you proactively done something valuable for
a member of your network this week? Yes No
9.
Do you have a trusted focus group of peers,
managers, or clients to provide honest personal brand feedback? Yes No
10.
Do you have an area of thought leadership or
specific point of view for which you are known?
Yes No
Scoring
Add up the number of times you selected Yes and see where your brand stands.
0-3 – Potential Brand
4-6 – Rising Brand
7-9 – Super Brand
10 – Mega
Brand
If you're not a Mega Brand, what steps can you take to up your score? Check out the book, "Ditch. Dare. Do!" for ideas to turn your brand up!
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